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HOW IS YOUR LACK OF CONFIDENCE HOLDING YOU BACK FROM LIFE?

It’s so much more than the bikini.
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A lack of confidence was holding me back from:
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MONEY. I wasn’t confident enough at work to really ask for a raise, increase in pay, or negotiate salary as much as I could have even though I knew I deserved it.
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MY RELATIONSHIP. I was insecure about myself and always needed validation from many different guys, which affected my relationship with my boyfriend. (@wangjoshuah and I have been dating for 6 years now, but if you knew us in college you know that the first two years we were verrrry off and on with our relationship, and that was mostly because of me).
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FRIENDS. I was always subconsciously stressed out about what I looked like or was wearing instead of being able to fully enjoy my time with my friends (Many of you ladies have also told me you feel similar things and said you feel like “the fat one” when you hang out with your friends even though you know you’re not!)
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SANITY. I wasn’t confident enough to say “no” to things, and I had so much FOMO about missing parties and events that I said yes to hanging out with everyone all the time and then got super overwhelmed because I had no time to myself, ever, which just made me more stressed out.
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HELPING YOU. I had been thinking about starting a fitness Instagram page for years but never did it because I didn’t feel confident in myself and was worried what everyone would think because “I’m not fit enough yet.” If I hadn’t started my page I wouldn’t have impacted so many others on their fitness journeys.
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Think about it gals! What are you missing out on because you aren’t confident enough in yourself to do it?
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Is it holding you back from:
- Your relationships and your love life?
- Having fun with your friends because you always feel like “the fat one”?
- Wearing the clothes you really want to wear?
- Applying for your dream job instead being stuck in the “safe” one you have now?
- Starting your own business, youtube channel, etc because you’re too worried about what people will think?
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Annnd what are you going to do to change this?
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