Do you spend HOURS getting dressed?

Do you spend HOURS getting dressed?

Do you spend HOURS getting dressed?
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Change clothes 5 million times trying to find something that doesn’t make you look fat?
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I used to waste hours and hours shopping online before big events or outings. I would obsess for WEEKS before formals or weddings about what dress I was going to wear and what shoes and what accessories etc etc etc.
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I would end up buying five dresses online, try them on, hate them all, and then have a mental breakdown about how none of them fit right and how I felt terrible and chunky in all of them. I’d end up returning them all and just wearing one of my old dresses I knew was safe.
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(There was never anything wrong with the dresses. And I didn’t look chunky. They were all super cute. I just never felt like they were the “perfect one” that made me look good).
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Girls lemme tell you a secret.
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THE PERFECT DRESS DOESN’T EXIST.
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Only YOU, and the way you carry yourself, can make yourself look perfect.
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I didn’t realize this. I didn’t even think it was possible to throw on the first outfit you find, spend 15 minutes on your makeup… and STILL look hot as fuck without having a meltdown of insecurity and stress before every single event or outing.
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I didn’t think this was possible until recently when I did it, and was shocked by how easy it was.
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Every party I went to this past holiday season, every outing with friends, I literally have thrown on the first cute outfit I’ve found and marched out the door to have fun with my friends (who, by the way, I *guarantee you* don’t remember what I wore and don’t spend their time thinking about it).
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Cute clothes, makeup….girls, these are amazing, but if you are not confident on the inside it will show.
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Even when I was in a “perfect” dress I was constantly tugging at it, reaching for my cardigan, and trying to find mirrors to make sure I still looked OK.
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Parties should be FUN, not a cause of stress and anxiety over what you look like. If they’re causing you anguish— let’s chat, because I’ve been there and can help you. DM me or apply to work 1:1.
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